Wednesday, June 8, 2011

So, Now it's Called The 3-Year Glitch?

I remember watching a movie a long, long time ago where the little kids were asking their recently divorced mother, “Why did the loving stop, Mom?” I think that’s the fear of all couples, whether you’re in a relationship for just a few weeks, or you’ve been there for a long time--what if the loving stopped? And when will love’s ember start to ebb?

I’m sure everybody has heard of the seven-year itch syndrome, wherein statistics says that couples start to get bored with each other and stray their eyes (and arms!) a hundred and eighty degrees after seven years of being together. Well, bad news, commitment-phobes, this has now been shortened from seven to a three-year old glitch. That is, if you were to believe a Reuters London article and survey*.  It says that small harmless annoying habits can lead to major passion-killers in a relationship, after 36 months. And what are they?


  1. Weight gain/lack of exercise, 13 percent
  2. Money & Spend thriftiness, 11 percent
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         3.  Anti-social working hours, 10 percent
         4.  Hygiene issues (personal cleanliness), 9 percent  
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          5.  In-Laws/extended family - too much/too little, 9 percent
          6.  Lack of romance (sex, dates, treats etc.), 8 percent
          7.  Alcohol - drinking too much, 7 percent
          8. Snoring & anti social bedtime habits, 6 percent
           9. Lapsed fashion-Same old underwear/clothes, 4 percent
         10. Bathroom habits - Stray nail cuttings etc., 4 percent.
    Isa sa pinag-awayan nina Martin and Pops?


    Off to my 'thousandth' date
    Guess Vest
    F21 Dress
    Celine Wedges
    Now, if you are guilty of even one of these warning signs, then it’s time to tweak your habits. Unless, of course, you deliberately want to lose your partner. But I think it's not about being thin and putting on make-up which are the real issues here, it's more about still caring enough to put your best foot forward, as if you are always on your first date.

    Thank God the Hubby and I are past that 3-year and 7-year curses. But I’m still heading first to Marks & Spencer Lingerie section when I go to Cebu next time. Just to be sure;-)





     Day 8 in Singles Prison...The rashes are on their way to dry land..woohoo! And I learned how to use the mouse using my left hand. Kaya n'yo yun?

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